My guys have been keeping me very busy this past week and I haven’t had a moment to sit down and write. Since, Bo is already starting to stir and Littleman’s nap is likely to end any second, I’m resorting to bullet points:
- It’s Mother’s Day today and I’m on my own with the kids because D is working. At first, I was a bit bummed because I knew it meant a lot of work for me today. But it’s actually been really nice so far. Littleman slept in late (due to being up til 10:30pm for a dinner party – more about that later) and then we spent the rest of the morning outdoors. It’s a beautiful day so went for a walk to pick up some berry and white chocolate scones (yum!) and Starbucks. We ate our treats at the park, where Bo promptly awoke screaming and we had to rush home (tried nursing in the park but too sunny… kiddo was MAD!)
- It’s Mother’s Day today and I’m remembering how hard it was last year. Watching my sweet baby sleep as I write this, I know I’m one lucky momma. But I can’t help thinking about the pregnancy we lost last year. I think I will always remember that baby on Mother’s Day. And I’m OK with that. For a short (too short) while, I was that baby’s mother too.
- We had a dinner party last night. It was kind of chaotic, but fun. Friends were visiting from the UK (expecting their first baby in June) and another couple came too (expecting their first baby in September). The two guys were D’s best buds from childhood. It was funny to see the three of them all mature and fatherly. I’m also pretty proud of myself for pulling off cooking dinner for six adults and a kid when D was working all day and I have a baby at home. I even baked a pretty kick-ass dessert (that was deceivingly easy). The biggest challenge of the night was getting Littleman to bed. He was having a ball (even though he was the only kid) and he ended up staying up super late. I thought that would mean a rough night, but he slept in til 10am! Woah.
- Speaking of sleep, Bo has given me a couple of nice stretches this week. On Thursday night, he fell asleep in his chair at 10pm. I went straight to bed. I woke up out of a dead sleep at 4am, needing to pee! That’s six hours! Aside from some sore boobs, I felt pretty darn good. The next night he did a 5 1/2 hour stretch. Now we need to work on adding another longish sleep to our nights. After that one decent sleep, he tends to wake every hour or so.
Anyway, there are lots of other things that went on this week (like another “blind” play date – we hosted one this time!) but my quiet time is running out. Happy Mother’s Day to all the new, old, expecting, grieving, hopeful mothers out there.