I think my three-year-old is starting to sense how imminent the arrival of the new baby is. And, I’m starting to worry about how he’s going to react when it actually happens.
Littleman is a pretty smart kid and we’ve been talking about the baby for many months. I think he understands what’s going on as much as he possibly can at his age. He knows there’s a baby in mommy’s tummy. He knows that it’s his baby brother. He likes playing “baby” a lot these days. But he’s also a typical first-born or only child. He is used to having constant attention and one-on-one time. He is not used to playing by himself.
We’ve been trying our best to prepare him for the baby’s arrival. We have a couple of books about being a big brother. We talk about the things that the baby won’t be able to do – the things that only a big boy can do. We’ve practiced having him sleep at Nana and Nonno’s house (my parents). But I’m just not sure that there’s anything we can do to really, truly get him ready for the change that’s about to happen.
As I said before, I think he’s starting to realize how soon this baby will be here. He’s always been a daddy’s boy, but lately he’s been wanting mommy for everything. This weekend, I got tons of cuddles and kisses. When we were both around, he pretty much only chose me to do things with him. That is very abnormal behaviour for him.
Now that I’m done work, I’m hoping I’ll have some more energy to play with Littleman in the evenings. I want to spend as much time with him as I can in these final days before the baby arrives because I know my attention will be stretched between the two of them once Bo is here.
If anyone has any advice on what else we can do to prep Littleman for the baby’s arrival, please pass it along! I certainly don’t expect the transition to a family of four to be easy, but I’m willing to try anything we can to do to make it a little less hard.